I think everyone struggles with trust. In my life I have lost trust in so many people, especially in guys.
Now a days everyone is a thing and its confusing. Guys & girls switch up on each other when your a thing but apparently its not cheating, it still hurts. Being with someone you put so much trust in them and next thing you know they break that trust. It is such a confusing situation in the past guys have treated me so badly like lying to my face, using me for my body, throwing "i love you" around when they don't actually mean it. Anyone can just switch up on anyone at anytime and I fear that. It thats freedom that guys like knowing you guys aren't dating but are talking so they think its okay to hook up with someone else then they expect you not to get mad about it since you aren't technically dating. For us girls it's hard because you don't know how to react your mad but cant let them know because your not dating but its this crushing feeling because they went behind your back. It has been a hard year for me to find someone who I trust and letting people go. Trust issues is not just a feeling, its something that people hold on to it can break someone. So don't break someones trust because of temptation because it screws with peoples mindset in the future. I have had to learn the hard way, I still struggle with trusting people not only boys, girls too. I have pushed people away because I am scared of being hurt again. So what I have done is just give people time and not to rush things.When your in a relationship there is trust, but if there is no trust there is no relationship its a pending relationship. If you have trust issues like me, we have to solved them introspection and be more self aware. Trust always starts with your view and your ability to hold yourself up, but if the trust is broken you cant allow fear, insecurity, or the past to block the trust that you put in the next person in your life. I know its hard not to do that but just know that trust is the ticket to freedom that you need and if you don't have that imaginary ticket you mentally wont be able to move on, you will still be aching from the inside. Don't give up on yourself or your ability to trust and love others around you. Many people have trust issues because when you give someone everything and they toss it away like it was nothing the pain inside of you breaks you.
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